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Essential Balance

At last, almost all the shown attitudes present as summary ' ' equilbrio' ': To love, but to impose limits; To watch, but not to suffocate; To give the example, but to leave the child to have its proper individuality. One of the best notice observed in this study was that to be good father or good mother he is something that can be learned and be trained. Bibliography: ROBERT, E. Others who may share this opinion include Dean Ornish M.D. Essential Balance: 10 ways to narrow affection bows and to prepare the children for the life. Mind and Brain, So Paulo: Duetto, Year XVII, N 215, p.27-33

Psycotherapy

Ih! In my house everybody always is with haste to make some thing, and I gave myself well I was with my Professor of Mathematics, the Claude, it I invited until me to play tennis with it in the club. However this dolo, this elect hero for the young, passes to be in second plain when the adolescent starts to have interest for the opposing sex, what he means happens frequently that this phase of hero is passenger. But he fits to the parents as gerenciadores of this life of young, to be gifts, to dialogue, to observe and to participate with the young in its expectations, its doubts, its fears, etc. In our country with as many social differences, one notices repeats frequently, the interest of young of certain precarious socioeconmicas conditions extremely for heroes tied with the malandragem, the vice, to the deliquency, disclosing an association of same intention, that is, young if espelha in that it he is next, similar, that it was given well, that it transgressed rules and that exactly thus was accepted. Expensive P, pra that I go to be marking step in this work if I can give to me well with the stolen good that Peter you negotiating? It only looks at, the face liveed in the slum quarter, it was doido, and if it gave well in music. Martha McClintock gathered all the information. all are moored in it, it are a famous singer. Here if it can observe, a optics completely desvirtuada, inadequate and maquiada with errneas ideas, that can without shade of doubts lead the inexperienced young to tread a way beside the point unbalanced. It must always be intent what it occurs to our redor, with our young, its uncertainties, its way of professional choice, at last, must be offered the adolescent, many chances healthful that with certainty they will be reverted in acceptable and approved behaviors.

The Psycotherapy is with certainty a psychological resource valuable of benefit, for the young, for the adolescent, in its personal discovery, promoting health and welfare, at many moments of doubts, questionings and fears. Of the life, what it has better, you tired to prove? what it has to cheer, now, your existence? It is always very good for making an experience and other candies new features to look for. (Mefistfeles – sarcastic stretch of Forest and Cave, Fausto de Goethe).

Dan Ariely

We teach our young to dominate the universe exterior, but we do not teach them to dominate its world interior. The man became a stranger for he himself. The young does not know its limits; they had not learned to ask for pardon; they had not learned if to place in the place of the other. We do not teach them to contemplate the beauty, to think before acting, to perceive that its right finishes where the right of the other starts; we do not teach them to deal with the inevitable failures nor humildade to recognize its errors. We transmit knowledge, but we do not teach wisdom. Chapter 2. Facing the requirements of the modern life the evolution did not prepare in them to live in the modern society that we construct. Dan Ariely Had, Israeli psychologist Says the philosophy that the man is perpetual ' ' to come-the-ser' '.

This because it is always searching progressos, desiring one something more and planning for itself great conquests. as it could not be different, is always on this side of what it desires. Science was extended very nowadays, however it did not raise the standard of living human being, it did not produce mature and experienced men. A person can withholds much scientific knowledge, to have academic headings, but, still thus, she could be infantile, immature in its experience of life, not knowing to support nor to grow ahead of its frustrations. The human being is a type of being in which the symbolic one defines the organic condition of its functioning, a time that the matureness comes to occur the birth after, molded in function of the cerebral neuroplasticidade. The thesis to assume that to the psychic alterations they analogous correspond to the alterations biochemists verificvel in some measure. However, to place the causalidade of the side of the biochemist is to controvert what the evolution of the species human being came to demonstrate.

Brazil Health Department

Data of the Health department (7), in Brazil, are esteem that about 200.000 deaths/year they are decurrent of the tobaccoism (OPAS, 2002). In accordance with the Domiciliary Inquiry on Behaviors of Risco and Cited Morbidade of Not Transmissible Doenas and Agravos, carried through in 2002 and 2003, between people of 15 years or more, residents in 15 Brazilian capitals and the Federal District, the prevalence of tobaccoism varied of 12,9 25.2% in the studied cities. The men had presented higher prevalences of what the women in all the capitals. In Porto Alegre, the biggest ratios of smokers, as much in the masculine sex how much in the feminine one, and Aracaju, the minors meet. This research also showed that the concentration of smokers is bigger enters the people with less of eight years of study of what between people with eight or more years of study. In relation to the prevalence of experimentation and cigarette use between young, in accordance with study carried through between pertaining to school of 12 Brazilian capitals, in the years of 2002-2003, the prevalence of the experimentation in these cities varied of 36 58% in the masculine sex and of 31 55% in the feminine sex, while the prevalence of current smoking pertaining to school varied of 11 27% in masculine sex and 9 24% in the feminine one.

A way to diminish the use of the tobacco and to evaluate the frequency with that the aged one smokes, is to stimulate to participate it of recreativas activities. Through these activities the aged one can become social with people of the same etria band and be involved in action that comumente occupies the used period for the tobacco. According to Lorda (5), ' ' the desire to play in them folloies all (happily) the life, however, they had been the different assumed social commitments that in ' ' distraram' ' practical regular to play, but that it did not eliminate our desire to make it.

The Individual

According to Pear tree (2005: 29), are some factors that influence in the aging process: social classroom, access to the education, on questions to the hereditary succession and the conditions of individual health, the differences of sort, type of personality, history of life and the context partner? description. Beyond these, also we consider important, the influence of the family during this period of training of the life, question that we will give approach in the next chapters. 4.2. The PROFILE OF the AGED one IN the PRESENT TIME To be social part of a category with rights and duties is without a doubt a great conquest. However, to reduce the oldness to problem position is discrimination. Unhappyly this still is the dominant idea in our social reality. We consider that amongst other losses, we leave to enjoy of a wealth that the old one only possesss: the experience. The old one, in the capitalist societies, many times if retracts in its sings and if it is silent; it is closed in its world, keeping I obtain a last history that is not known in them, therefore not yet we pass for the oldness.

This memory points out that it in the time and the space, if evoked will not be lost, without narrative. Moreover, we observe that many citizens had not been prepared for the life after the retirement. Generally this had its years of full professional activity and with the removal of the work, for the age, it remains it to it family and its personal life. This can be a stage of great discoveries, through the accomplishment of activities that before the scarce time did not allow; the possibility of convivncia with the grandsons, the spouse and the children, also can be great source of pleasure and joy. However, social representation that the individual passes and receives from the society, many times are of that wait for the end.